Ignite

Has life lost its spark?

Both in and out of the bedroom?

It's time to mix things up, tap into your desire and prioritize your pleasure.

A pleasure filled life is within your reach, let me show you how to create it.

If you’re a woman who has ignored her needs...

You’ve probably forgotten that you even have needs, and yet you feel frustrated, disappointed, and unfulfilled. Your partner might be putting the pressure on, too - or maybe neither of you are even talking about sex, let alone having any.

might not know

Here’s what you might not know:

It’s not your fault that your desire has changed over time and you’ve stopped prioritizing pleasure. Years of conditioning won’t disappear overnight, but the barriers to pleasure just might, and I’m here to help you get there.

teach you

I can teach you how to:

Tap into your sexual desire

That’s right: you already have an innate desire for pleasure. You just need to learn how to unleash it.

Understand your arousal patterns

Once you work out what turns you on (and when), you can ask for what you want and flip that switch whenever you like.

Get out of your own head

Nothing ruins our experience of pleasure during sex more than the flurry of thoughts rushing through our minds. I’ll show you how to shut them down.

Blast your body image issues

Societal messages and conditioning has left women hyper-critical of their own bodies, and it’s about time we turned it around.

Even though tuning into your own sexual needs is a no-brainer,

figuring out how to fulfill them is another thing entirely.

Sexual satisfaction is a key component of romantic relationships - but it takes more than romance to make it work. If you’re just not *feeling it*, resist the urge to blame or change yourself, and change the way things work in your bedroom instead.

Here’s the thing:

Most women don’t make their own satisfaction a priority because they have been conditioned to believe that this is the way things should be - and that’s a HUGE problem...

Because, when we have been taught that our partner's pleasure is more important than our own, trying to change the status quo feels wrong - even when we know, deep down, that it’s not, and we deserve better.

The result?

We stay quiet, even when we want to scream (and not in a good way).

4 Reasons Most Women Don’t Get the

Sex They Deserve

“I don’t have the desire.”

Although every story is different, lack of desire is a problem for many women because what we’re taught about desire is based on what’s true for most men. No wonder you’re *not into it*!

“I don’t have the energy.”

When you spend all day cooking, cleaning, working, caring for kids, and looking after everyone but yourself, it’s no wonder you roll into bed feeling exhausted! Fatigue is a serious mood-killer.

“I don’t know where to start.”

If you’re anything like the average woman, your life has been structured around everything but your own pleasure. You spend your days taking care of others, and so you forget how to take care of yourself, or worse - you never even give yourself time to learn.

“I don’t know how to talk about it.”

Sex can be a touchy subject, especially when all you want is less *touchy* and more sleep. It’s no wonder so many women avoid these difficult conversations, but if you don’t learn how to start talking about it, the finish line will always seem further away.

YES! I want in

Can I let you in on a

dirty little secret?

There’s nothing dirty about wanting... no, demanding great sex - because you deserve it.

I wanted to thank you for your guidance and suggestions to get my marriage back on track!

[My partner] and I have been communicating, making time for each other while also pursuing personal interests. We’re working every day for a stronger marriage.

- Anonymous

Great course!

The most important takeaway for me was that setting boundaries is not only about the “no” or what you won’t do or put up with, but more about what you will be able to say yes to when you make yourself a priority. Great course!

- Anonymous

If you’re ready to do the heavy lifting, she’s it

Literally within my first hour with [Joanne], I wondered why the hell I’d wasted so much time and money working with anyone else. If you’re ready to do the heavy lifting, she’s it.

- Anonymous

Highly recommended.

One of the very first things Joanne did with me was to have me visit with my inner child, and I did not see it coming. She basically went for the jugular. It connected the dots for me in ways that I didn’t expect, and that clarity was everything. Highly recommended.

- Anonymous

Introducing

Ignite: Reignite Your Sexual Spark

Take Control and Learn To Experience Pleasure Again

I've taken everything I've learned from my experience as a sex therapist and turned it into a program for every woman who has ever felt less-than-great about sex.

Inside, you’ll get all the information and tips that I normally cover in at least six therapy sessions, and learn how to experience more pleasure in EVERY aspect of your life.

The end result: A whole lot of HELL YES, in the bedroom and beyond.

is the first course of its kind that…

TACKLES PROBLEMATIC PATRIARCHAL SYSTEMS
Most programs on low desire for women don’t include a discussion of how patriarchal systems affect women’s desire. This course will teach you how to identify and tune out unhelpful, male-centric sex education and cultural scripts so you can listen to your body instead.
BREAKS DOWN CONFUSING SOCIETAL MESSAGES
Years of societal conditioning have left us confused about our bodies and sexuality in general, and turned sex into a stressful experience. I’ll help you understand the way you’re feeling right now and why so that you can start to feel better - in your head and in the bed.
FOCUSSES ON YOUR HOLISTIC EXPERIENCE OF PLEASURE
Pleasure is a combination of many small moments, but it’s easy to miss the little things that make everyday life more enjoyable. Through these modules, you’ll learn to create a life that taps into the desire you already have and feel the benefits, in the bedroom and beyond.

YES! I want in

Here’s how it all breaks down…

INTRODUCTION

Low desire is SO common amongst women because we’re taught that the way we experience desire is wrong, so we shut it down. In this module, we’ll explore the societal conditioning and sexual miseducation holding you back, and why it’s so important to make your needs a priority.

DESIRE

If you’re anything like most women, you don’t really need to “boost” your desire - you need to tap into what you’ve already got. In this module, I’ll walk you through somatic mindfulness practices so that you can begin to unleash your sexual side.

PLEASURE

Living a life filled with pleasure is about enjoying all the little things (as well as the Big Os), but so many women are living in avoidance mode. In this module, I’ll show you how to redesign your life as a pleasure seeker and fall back in love with your life.

ORGASM

This is it - the moment we’ve all been waiting for! We all want to make it over the finish line, and that’s what this module is all about. Although there’s no pressure to have an orgasm, if you want one, the first step is owning it. This module covers everything you need to know about the C-word (clitoris, of course!) and how to work it.

REPEAT

When you’ve come full circle, the only logical next step is to go back and do it all over again. This module is all about making pleasure part of your plan for the future, and creating a life that feels good (literally).

SOFT START UP WORKBOOK

This workbook is designed to make those not-so-sexy discussions about sex (and other challenging topics) with your partner feel a little less prickly. If you know you need to have The Talk, this workbook will walk you through the process of bringing it up, talking it through, and coming out closer on the other side. You’ll get access to this bonus immediately after purchase, and you know what that means: there’ll be no waiting, no wondering, and no disappointment.